I recently learned of the “Platinum Rule”. Obviously, platinum was chosen due to
its apparent superiority to gold as a way of saying that this "Platinum" rule actually
trumps the merely Golden one.
In case you’re wondering, the Golden Rule has been around
forever in a variety of formats and iterations and is a pretty simple
concept: Treat others the way you'd like to be treated.
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The Platinum rule is also pretty simple: “Treat others the
way they’d like to be treated.”
As simple as it is, it changes the paradigm quite a
bit. It forces the seat
of authority from the actor to the recipient of the action by asking the actor
to consider what the other person would want as opposed to inferring or assuming what they'd want based on what the actor might want.
This coercion into active listening and critical questioning
are quite absent in the Golden Rule.
Isn’t it funny how this rule seems to have originally
appeared in a book about salesmanship? Even so, its hard not to find global applicability here that forces transcendence
from definition to meaning and a recognition that the inherent worth and
dignity of others is not so much granted (by you), but defined by them. [ - or, if you're so inclined by God/god.]
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