Its a popular position to take - I had taken the position, being one who has become over time firmly planted on one of the politically extreme edges.
And then, I had a conversation with a member of a traditionally marginalized group. She looked at me and said something along the lines of:
"You know that America has sucked for my people for a long time. None of us ever had the option to leave. We stayed - not that we wouldn't have loved to have gone someplace else, but that wasn't an option for us. So, (and she was very kind, but very blunt), don't give me any crap about how you feel about this one or that one."She finished it off by (again in a loving, but point-blank manner) telling me that if people like me left at the first moment stuff became sticky for them, she wouldn't be surprised, nor would she be sad to see us go.
Wow. I am a changed man. I am so happy I get to run into these wonderful people in my life's journey.